Words and pictures by the Blogger
A daughter is one of the most beautiful gifts this world has to give
Two decades + 1 year - from an exuberantly wild, long-limbed topless tomboy to a mature, confident and driven young professional woman. Where did the in-between years go?
Fathers and their daughters, even more so when they are the first born, are ‘coalesced and conglomerated’ into an almost indescribable and inseparable bond. At the tender age of twenty one (21), a milestone tinged with poignancy and parental reflection, there are just as many unanswered questions, unfounded fears and absurd anxieties as there were a new life and time ago!
Shelved memories on display ..... lest those in the inner recesses of our mind and heart begin fade......
At this significant rite of passage, bookended by two decades and continents – with formative years in native South Africa and adolescence/adulthood in adopted Australia, there is a measure of satisfaction that as parents we’ve been able to provide a balanced upbringing and education representing, arguably, the best of both disparate worlds. Whereas the physical remoteness, oceans apart, remains a constant the socio-cultural gulf, worlds apart, is ever increasing. Yesteryear’s hope and promise all but snuffed out but fortuitously replaced by a bright and viable alternative - the Australian dream.
Cherished times never taken for granted
Experienced it! Pokemons, Sims, UniGames ....
One of many life-altering memories ‘gifted’ by a progressive and functional Australian society, that prides itself for its hard yakka – work (and play) ethic, is legalized/protected employment for youth in their early teens. Juggling extra mural sport/art with approximately 40 paid employment hours per month in the Fast-Moving Consumer Goods (FMCG) sector is a tall order but a fascinating and necessary ‘rite of passage’ for countless young Aussies – it’s simply the done thing! Commencing at the confused and clumsy ‘twilight-age’ of 14, most are thrust into the fore-front of customer service/retail trade serving at fast-food outlets, restaurants, supermarkets, fruit and vegetable outlets, butcheries and delicatessens.
|Working and playing hard - putting everything into life|
Many teens are exposed to an array of store front, customer service, and back office tasks – roles and responsibilities including cleaning chores and financial transactions - dealing with cash and credit. The nett result, invariably, is a confident and switched-on Aussie adolescent consumer group with marketplace/consumer SMARTS including a well-defined and personalized work ethic; what it is to provide as well as receive ‘acceptable – world class levels’ of customer service in an increasingly service-oriented milieu; the value of money – earning and spending it; and time/priority management.
Adorable idiosyncrasies given wings...........
The flip-side of all of this is that Australian society/consumers are covertly seduced and or blatantly king-hit by highly sophisticated and ruthless multi-media machinery intent upon extracting every possible dollar, present or forthcoming, from less vigilant or discerning shoppers. With immense societal/ peer pressure and a pre-occupation for immediate gratification fueled by beautiful people, bodies, places and cuisine – let the good times roll! Health, fitness and well-being, once peeled back and exposed, competes constantly with an insidious ‘cringe- binge society’ predominated by fast food, fast alcohol, fast sugar and other fast vices.
Confronted by this bookcase and its countless vignettes, short stories, chapters, books – fables, non-fiction or otherwise – even if incomplete – this represents a personal, living library in its own right. First faltering footsteps; ‘raptured’ randomness, of thought, personality, and aptitude, emerging and evolving; uncanny fingered and spatial dexterity – boxed origami menagerie with all manner of walking and flying creatures – precise, practiced, perfect – origins unknown ……. early glimmers of self-discipline and determination; fastidious fascination with mythical and ethereal creatures – dragons and Dragonology, fairies, dinosaurs etc……
Dragonology and drawing really cool stuff....
A bookmark – WRENCHED away to new and different world ….. finding a meaningful place in it. Pedagogical and personality transformation centered upon an open, energetic, inquisitive, adventurous, no bars hold mindset. Unrecognizable quirk-arty twist. Opportunity given and taken – a life embraced and lived to the fullest. Streakish independence verging on selfishness – perhaps the difference between mediocrity, being just another Sheila blogs ssp. Australiensis, or someone of substance – perhaps excellence given the fiercely competitive nature of the Australian way of life.
From an exuberantly wild, long-limbed, topless tomboy to a mature, confident and driven young professional woman but still, a yet incomplete metamorphosis.
|Celebrating Aussie Awesomeness! A work in progress.|